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      1 [1]Rach Smith [2]
      2 Rach Smith'sdigitalgarden
      3 
      4   • [3]Notes
      5   • [4]Tags
      6   • [5]About
      7   • [6]Subscribe image/svg+xml
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      9   • rainbows[7][ ]
     10   • cursor trails[8][ ]
     11   • dark mode[9][ ]
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     13 It's okay to lower the bar
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     15 Added: August 13, 2024
     16 
     17   • [10]#journaling
     18 
     19 I had a journal entry in my [11]Hobonichi Techo Cousin for every day this year
     20 until July, where I have a string of blank pages.
     21 
     22 I was doing so well, and I was really in to the swing of journaling every day…
     23 until I wasn’t.
     24 
     25 The cause? Doing a little too well at journaling, actually. I got inspired by
     26 the fancy spreads of other Hobonichi enthusiasts on Instagram, and started
     27 making my own pretty layouts. My pages were looking beautiful until things got
     28 busy and my mental health/energy [12]took a dive.
     29 
     30 I’d raised the bar for my daily entries, and didn’t have the energy to meet it.
     31 But instead of just lowering the bar and going back to boring/ugly entries,
     32 perfectionist thinking kicked in. If I couldn’t make it good, why do it at all?
     33 
     34 So I missed a couple of days, at which point the all-or-nothing thinking
     35 started up. I’ve broken my journaling streak, why even continue? I’ve basically
     36 ruined my Hobonichi now, for the rest of 2024!
     37 
     38 Thankfully, I was eventually able to shake myself out of those thoughts and
     39 come back to just getting something, anything on the page at the end of the
     40 day. But there was a while there were I really thought I may as well put the
     41 journal in the bin.
     42 
     43 I had to remind myself that it’s okay to lower the bar. That an average version
     44 of something is better than a perfect version of nothing. All I can do is have
     45 a go.
     46 
     47 Thanks for reading! If you'd like to share your thoughts you can [13]leave a
     48 comment, [14]send me an email, hit me up [15]on Mastodon, or [16]add an issue
     49 on GitHub.
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     68 Acknowledgement of Country
     69 
     70 I acknowledge the [25]Gubbi Gubbi people, the Traditional Owners of the land
     71 and waterways where I live. I would like to pay my respects to Elders past,
     72 present and emerging.
     73 
     74   • [26] codepen.io/rachsmith
     75   • [27]github.com/rachsmithcodes
     76   • [28] mastodon.social/@rachsmith
     77   • [29][email protected]
     78 
     79 © 2024 Rachel Smith
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     81 References:
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     83 [1] https://rachsmith.com/
     84 [2] https://rachsmith.com/
     85 [3] https://rachsmith.com/
     86 [4] https://rachsmith.com/tags/
     87 [5] https://rachsmith.com/about/
     88 [6] https://rachsmith.com/feed.xml
     89 [10] https://rachsmith.com/tags/#journaling
     90 [11] https://rachsmith.com/hobonichi-techo-cousin/
     91 [12] https://rachsmith.com/mnnm-7/
     92 [13] https://rachsmith.com/lower-the-bar/#comments
     93 [14] mailto:[email protected]?subject=re%3A%20It's%20okay%20to%20lower%20the%20bar
     94 [15] https://mastodon.social/@rachsmith
     95 [16] https://github.com/rachsmithcodes/rachsmith.com/issues
     96 [19] https://www.markdownguide.org/basic-syntax/
     97 [25] https://gubbigubbidyungungoo.com/gubbi-gubbi-country/
     98 [26] https://codepen.io/rachsmith
     99 [27] https://github.com/rachsmithcodes
    100 [28] https://mastodon.social/@rachsmith
    101 [29] mailto:[email protected]