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[48]January 5, 2024 12:41 PM PT
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[49]Grief and a Photo Shuffle
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Charlie Warzel’s beloved dog died last year, and he [50]used an iPhone feature
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to memorialize her:
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Instead of a memorial photo of Peggy, I opted to try a newer, “dynamic”
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wallpaper feature called “Photo Shuffle.” Every so often, my iPhone would
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change my wallpaper and home screen to an image it had grabbed from my
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camera roll. To help it along, I could offer parameters for the photo
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choice. Knowing that Apple’s Photos app uses image-recognition software to
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identify cats and dogs in the camera roll, I chose a “Pets” filter.
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Grief is not linear, and neither is Photo Shuffle. Over the next few
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months, I watched the photos change in and out at random—always with a dog
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in focus.
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Not only do I empathize with Warzel’s situation (we lost a beloved dog in
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August 2022), but [51]as I wrote about last year, my wife and I also recently
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started using the Photo Shuffle feature that was introduced with iOS 16… and
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it’s pretty powerful.
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Not a week goes by where my wife doesn’t show me one of the pictures of our
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kids (her phone is set to shuffle through photos in which either of our
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children’s faces has been identtified) that have surfaced on her phone’s lock
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screen. We’ve taken tens of thousands of photos of these children over two
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decades, and while many photos are familiar (the ones that we’ve printed out
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and framed, or put on calendars, or added to a Favorites list), the vast
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majority of them have largely gone unseen, filed away in an infinite iCloud
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Photo Library filing cabinet.
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One of the magical thing about Photo Shuffle is that those obscure photos also
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keep floating to the top. They’re not necessarily the best or most polished,
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but they’re surprising and delightful.
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Warzel writes that iOS has “taught me how to grieve,” and while I haven’t used
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Photo Shuffle to grapple with that particular emotion, just a few weeks after
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our dog died, our youngest child went off to college and we officially became
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empty nesters. I suppose the Photo Shuffle is filling a particular (but
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different) emotional need for us, too.
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[1] Christopher Butler ☼
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Periodical 14 — v DIY
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While you’re here, make the world your own.
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Hello from the makerspace, otherwise known as home.
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Home should be a makerspace! At any level — food, art, life, clothing, and on
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to more difficult craft like furniture and construction — everyone should have
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their hands in something. Ideally, it’s unique, if not straight-up weird. Life
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is too short to default on your surroundings.
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What Kyle Chayka calls [5]AirSpace is not exactly new, but it has been newly
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invigorated by the power of Instagram (he also coined that term [6]back in 2016
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!). Yes, every coffee shop looks the same, and so does every Zoom background,
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and every book cover, and every haircut, and so on. It’s called style. What is
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culture, after all, but a shared sensibility? Kyle’s point, though, is that the
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technology of the day spreads style especially quickly, which creates a
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feedback loop that radiates outward into economies and life choices. I think
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he’s right about that.
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Because there’s a big span of something between a shared culture of images and
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things made in a certain way to express a certain value and images and things
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made to do little more than appear like something else. The problem with going
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much further with this critique is it really can’t be done without some kind of
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snobbery — espousing the notion that one preference is simply better than
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another. That’s not for me, so I won’t.
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But I will say that while debates over culture rage on, you can always just
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make your own. It’s interesting; it’s fun; it’s often cheaper.
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This weekend was a very DIY kind of weekend.
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The first project I finished was one I’d been contemplating for years. It was
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High Optimization. You see, we store our CD collection on a set of built-in
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shelves in our den that originate with the house itself — seventy-two year-old
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construction, encyclopedia-deep like any good mid-century den should have.
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What’s bothered me for years is that even though I rebuilt the shelves to
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reduce the vertical space and house more rows of CDs, the depth remained the
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same. The discs were always getting pushed back, making them hard to retrieve
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without disrupting the entire row of discs and making everything look out of
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order. It made me very twitchy. So I built custom frames to insert at the back
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of the shelves, reducing their depth to about half-an inch shy of a CD. Now you
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can push a disc fully back, keeping the row perfectly flush, and the half-inch
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that hangs over the edge of the shelf is just the right amount to make
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retrieving a single disc very smooth. The frame also retains the space behind
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it, which is great for storing overflow or box sets.
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I also made a set of dividers that are wrapped in very bright orange cardstock.
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They divide the collection by genre and pop out very nicely.
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Since my tools were out and I had some extra wood, I made a quick sketch of a
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desk riser I’d been imagining and quickly made it a reality. The moment my
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daughter saw it in the office, she exclaimed “I WANT ONE TOO!” I said, let’s
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draw one and make one together!
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One thing I hope my children learn is to nurture the balance of curiosity,
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creativity, and willingness to mess-up that is needed to make the world your
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A Second Life for My Beloved Dog
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A simple iPhone feature unexpectedly changed how I grieved.
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By [51]Charlie Warzel
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January 5, 2024
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Peggy was my first dog—the dog I waited 28 patient years for. I finally met her
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on August 15, 2015. She was eight weeks old, covered in filth after a 14-hour
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ride from Georgia to New York, and inexplicably still adorable. Floppy ears.
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Jet-black muzzle. Meaty little forepaws. We didn’t plan it this way, but my
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partner and I rescued her on the same day we moved in together. Peggy
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represented a new phase of my life: the beginning of my chosen family.
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As soon as I brought the chubby, squirming ball of fur home, I felt compelled
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to capture, however clumsily, the joy she brought into our lives. You can see
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the change in my iPhone’s camera roll: Two-thirds of the way through 2015, the
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mosaic of images shifts away from the drab tones of a poorly lit Brooklyn
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apartment and is infused with a new vitality. She was a junkyard dog—a stubborn
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scrapper that loved eating garbage off the street, and one that had a
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supernatural ability to charm humans. Once, in South Brooklyn, I left her tied
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up for an instant to purchase a coffee and came out to find she’d seduced an
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old Italian pastry chef to procure some breadcrumbs. People remarked that her
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face felt familiar, like an old friend was in there somewhere. Her mystique was
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compounded early on, when an unfortunate accident left her with three legs, for
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which she compensated by becoming comically muscular. Of course I was obsessed
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with documenting Peggy’s life.
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She was a constant, as any dog would be, through cross-country moves,
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quarter-life crises, career changes, new presidential administrations, and a
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pandemic. Then, one day last May, quite unexpectedly, she was gone.
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We let her go in the middle of the night, so quickly that we weren’t able to
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say goodbye. Until then, I’d been lucky enough to avoid this type of tragic,
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sudden loss. My grief in those early moments felt like the emergency exit on an
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airplane had opened mid-flight, the sudden loss of cabin pressure violently
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sucking everything out of the hull that isn’t bolted down. For days, my
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fuselage was empty, the contents scattered and falling from the sky. I went on
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walks, laughed and cried at random, and tried to stay busy. But all I really
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wanted to do—the only thing that felt appropriate and sustaining—was [58]look
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at pictures of Peggy on my phone. I lost hours inside my camera roll staring at
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her reddish-brown fur centered in the frame, while watching us become a family
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in the background. My device, normally a wasteland, became a refuge.
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[59]Read: There are no “five stages” of grief
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On the day she died, I set my phone’s wallpaper to my favorite photo of
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Peggy—appearing to smile on a ridgeline trail in Missoula, Montana, the
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bright-yellow balsamroot flowers in bloom behind her. But a month later, I told
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myself that it was time to stop wallowing. Instead of a memorial photo of
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Peggy, I opted to try a newer, “dynamic” wallpaper feature called “Photo
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Shuffle.” Every so often, my iPhone would change my wallpaper and home screen
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to an image it had grabbed from my camera roll. To help it along, I could offer
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parameters for the photo choice. Knowing that Apple’s Photos app uses
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image-recognition software to identify cats and dogs in the camera roll, I
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chose a “Pets” filter.
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Grief is not linear, and neither is Photo Shuffle. Over the next few months, I
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watched the photos change in and out at random—always with a dog in focus. Many
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of the stills were pictures I didn’t remember taking, ones I’d passed over or
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missed in my melancholic, late-night scrolling. So many were chaotic, blurred
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streaks of fur and tongues curiously sniffing a lens or bounding out of frame;
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a lot were objectively bad photos, which I found made them especially funny as
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iPhone wallpaper. Peggy wasn’t the only subject—our other dog, Steve, a winsome
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and serious-faced cattle dog, shared screen time—but being First Dog meant that
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Peggy had been photographed much more. She took on a starring role: Peggy wet
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from a beach swim, regal Peggy posing under the Christmas tree, puppy Peggy,
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manic post-fetch Peggy with a yard’s length of tongue sticking out of her
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mouth. Sad photos inevitably cropped up: Peggy in the hospital, Peggy’s last
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car ride, Peggy and Steve side by side on our lawn, enjoying what would be
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their last sunset together.
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My partner turned on Photo Shuffle, too, and we developed a new ritual. Look at
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this new Peggy, one of us would say, holding a phone up to the other’s face.
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We’d usually laugh or smile; occasionally one of us would tear up. Sweet girl.
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Miss you, Pegs. Mostly, though, we’d take a moment and orient the photo in our
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lives, remembering a trip or a random ordinary Wednesday on a trail or at the
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dog park. The photos opened up little windows of reflection and a moment to
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express some gratitude—for Peggy, and for our lives together.
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Devotees of note-taking apps such as Notion and Evernote have a term for the
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mass of musings, links, documents, and projects they store on the cloud: the “
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[60]second brain.” If you organize your data the right way, these programs will
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allow you to recall an extraordinary amount of information, in the same way
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your mind might. I’ve never been very good at using these apps, but I’ve found
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that my camera roll functions similarly. It is like a digital appendage of my
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mind, functioning in a complementary, Proustian way—triggering and dredging up
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memories that have been long filed away. My camera roll is a diary, a mood
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board. Thanks to the ability to screenshot, it is also a place for sundry notes
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and clippings. When I scroll through my photos over a long enough period, I
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find they are a pretty decent archive of my life.
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[61]Read: Please get me out of dead-dog TikTok
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The dynamic wallpaper, however, adds a new layer to this experience. It is a
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curator, maybe even a biographer. And, however inadvertently, the feature has
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become a counselor, allowing me to grieve on my own timeline. Right now, Peggy
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is the dominant face on my screen, but, over time, I imagine the ratio of Peggy
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pictures to others will change. I will get older, get new dogs, do new things,
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and take more pictures. Peggy will still be there, popping up when I least
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expect it, but her presence will gently recede as I learn to live without her.
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This complex universe of grief and moving on is playing out on my phone screen,
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but also in my own behaviors. This summer, we added Beverly, a new puppy, to
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our family. I’m not sure why but, since the pandemic, I’ve been less inclined
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to take photos than I was in Peggy’s halcyon days. But recently I’ve found
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myself consciously pausing and grabbing my phone to document Bev’s adolescence.
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My renewed interest is simple: I need photos of Beverly so that she may join
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the wallpaper rotation with frequency.
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A photograph of the author's dog in front of flowersPeggy resting in Missoula
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The more I scrutinize this small feature on my device and the way it became a
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load-bearing part of the past year of my life, the more I encounter some
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resistance from myself. There’s a part of me that doesn’t want to think too
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hard about what this all means, because doing so forces me to wrestle with just
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how important this brick of ceramic glass really is. We can snark about being
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addicted to our phones or worry about inflated screen-time numbers or the way
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we pull out our cameras to document moments we should instead be present for,
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but acknowledging the positives is equally disorienting—to do so suggests a
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certain unknowability about a technology we live with every day. What are our
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phones doing to us? A lot, it seems. Perhaps more than we realize.
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So much of the information I consume through my phone is jarring, presented in
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an overwhelming, intrusive fashion—via push notifications and design tricks,
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all vying for my attention. The dynamic wallpaper offers something else: quiet
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moments in my day that stop me in my tracks and promote reflection, rather than
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engagement. My phone’s operating system has taught me how to grieve.
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That doesn’t mean it’s been easy. It’s always the little things—the memory of
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the crimped hair behind her velvety ears, the image of her panting softly while
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sunning herself on the porch on a crisp summer morning, or the phantom feeling
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of the heft of her body, pressed against mine as I read before bed. These
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memories used to be painful; now they bring gratitude. Perhaps that’s because
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they’re not static—they’re alive, both in me and on the silly little device I
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take with me everywhere. There’s a three-legged hole in my heart, but I see
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Peggy every day.
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[62]Charlie Warzel is a staff writer at The Atlantic and the author of its
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newsletter [63]Galaxy Brain, about technology, media, and big ideas. He can be
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reached via [64]email.
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