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+[2]annie's blog
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+Tomorrow might feel better
+
+A screenshot showing a scene from Broadchurch. Hardy (David Tennant) is asking
+Miller (Olivia Colman): "How d'you do it, Miller, the whole single parent
+thing?" Miller's back is to us. Hardy's face looks strained. A scene from
+Broadchurch showing Miller (Olivia Colman) answering Hardy's question. Her face
+is toward us, lit by the sun. She looks resigned and self-deprecating as she
+says, "By constantly absorbing feelings of failure, guilt and shame."
+
+Sometimes you just don’t get to feel good about things. 
+
+Anyway a good rule I read somewhere long ago is something like Never trust how
+you feel about your life after 9pm.
+
+I’ve found it helpful to expand the rule a bit. 
+
+Never trust how you feel about your entire life….
+
+  • when you’re hungry or have eaten only crap lately.
+
+  • when you’re not getting enough sleep.
+
+  • when you’re in pain.
+
+  • when you just made a mistake.
+
+  • when something big is happening especially if it’s a bad or scary big
+    thing.
+
+  • when you’re in an argument or fresh out of one.
+
+  • when you haven’t seen the sun in 24+ hours.
+
+  • when you’ve just gotten bad news. 
+
+There are many more situations where this advice could be helpful. 
+
+When something is off, imbalanced, scary, upsetting in some part of your life,
+the rest of your life will tilt toward that angle. Or at least will feel like
+it does.
+
+Remembering this helps me to not take my own feelings so seriously. 
+
+I hope today is a good day for how you feel about your life, but if it’s not,
+tomorrow might be better.
+
+For the record, I feel good about my life right now, this very minute. I wrote
+part of this post a few days ago and another part of it a few years ago. I
+survived both the years and the days. You will, too. 
+
+    there is a light somewhere.
+    it may not be much light but
+    it beats the darkness.
+    be on the watch.
+
+    —Charles Bukowski, The Laughing Heart
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