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September 11, 2024
How many hobbies is too many?
[5]Two identical paintings. Each painting is two panels. The top panels is a
black and white word balloon that says GENOCIDE IS PAINLESS. The bottom panel
is a anthropomorphized slice of watermelon.Couple little paintings I did this
week for reasons.
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This weeks question comes to us from Gord Fynes:
How many hobbies is too many? There's only so many hours in the day, days in
the week, etc.
One. One hobby is too many.
I hate hobbies. Rather, I hate calling things hobbies. The word hobby is almost
always used apologetically. It carries a certain amount of shame, an element of
wasted time, or at least time not well-spent, certainly time spent not
“earning.” And therein lies the problem.
Lets get personal. When I was a kid, my father “earned” by doing construction
work. Hed leave early in the morning and come home caked in cement from laying
foundations. He was not a happy person to be around. He hated his job and he
took it out on his family. After dinner, which was never pleasant, he would
either disappear out the door or disappear into the basement.
The basement was off limits to us. Its where he painted. Years later, I got
brave enough to go door there. Behind a curtained-off area, I found a workbench
full of intricately painted tiles, always in blue. I found coffee cans full of
brushes, some of them carefully handmade. And I found family photographs taped
to the wall. All of this was new to me, and I couldnt understand why someone
who was always so full of rage towards me would have my school photo taped to
the wall above his workbench. In some ways I still dont.
As years passed, his secret became less of a secret. Hed occasionally bring a
tile up and hang it in the kitchen. Eventually, Id learn the tiles were called
azulejos. Eventually, Id learn that he was a trained azulejo painter in his
native Portugal, and well-regarded for it. Then he immigrated to the United
States where he laid cement to earn for his family. And I wondered what he
wouldve been like if he couldve spent his life doing what he loved.
Selfishly, I wondered what my life wouldve been like if he couldve spent his
life doing what he loved.
As more years passed, my father realized I had some form of artistic talent and
I was allowed behind the curtain, especially if he needed lettering. He sucked
at lettering.
When I decided I wanted to go to art school, my mother objected, but my father
did not. And while this did not make up for years of abuse, it was nonetheless
appreciated.
I hate hobbies. Hobbies end up being curtained-off room in the basement where
we hide the life we wish we could be living.
In my own adult life, I do lots of things. I design shit. I paint. I do
workshops. I make zines. I write. I love doing all of those things, and I
manage to do some of them for money. But to me they are equally important. And
while I have to acknowledge that all of this takes a certain amount of luck and
privilege, it also takes a plan.
When we started our design shop (the money work), one of the first things we
did was set boundaries for ourselves. We worked from 96 and from
MondayFriday. I never sold my weekends, and I never lived beyond my means in a
way that required me to sell my weekends. As time went on I did all I could to
reduce the things I did for money so I could spend time doing the things I
enjoyed that didnt make money. Both things were equally important.
Is this privileged? Yes. Is this a privilege that we need to extend to every
human being on earth? Also fucking yes, in a big way. (And if we have the money
to fund a genocide, we have the money for UBI.)
Hobby is capitalisms word. Its a crumb from capitalisms table. Capitalism is
happy that you have a hobby, especially if it can sell you HO-scale train sets
to complete it, but that hobby can never be taken as seriously as what
capitalism might need from you. (Oh, and that thing capitalism might need from
you? Well, design is your passion, so they dont really need to pay you
adequately for that, do they?)
Sadly, capitalism is still with us, and we need to earn. So when you have to
clock in, clock in. And when you clock out, clock the fuck out. Take off that
stupid watch that sends texts and emails to your wrist. Toss your laptop in the
basement. Get behind that drumkit, get in front of that easel, get your ass in
the garden, straddle that potters wheel, strap on the messenger bag with all
your paint cans and nozzles in it, and get the fuck to work.
All those are work.
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stickers and a zine.
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that doesnt deserve air. Vivianne is a friend, and I am so proud of everything
shes done.
📻 Ive been enjoying the new podcast [9]Rebel Spirit from Akilah Hughes,
produced by my friend Dan Sinker.
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